Writer’s block

I’ve been a writer for over sixty years. I do not remember ever having writer’s block. I developed a habit in grade school of writing what I wanted when I wanted to. Most of my teachers were just happy that I never asked what to write about. It was usually “write about something that happened to you or something that you are interested in.”

In junior high my teachers were more demanding. I had to write fiction or non-fiction, essays, or reports. Often, I would start more than one paper. If they wanted a particular piece but gave no restriction on the topic, I might write two or three different items. The day before it was due I had to choose which would be submitted.

More than one educator would suggest that we submit an additional paper for extra credit. I was always prepared for that. The fun thing about doing this was that often when a new assignment was given, I had at least one written that could be used.

In high school it became more difficult. Each paper had the maximum and minimum number of words required. Topics were more difficult to choose because the requirements were more restrictive. When I began taking journalism I continued to write multiples of each assignment.

News stories, editorials, features, and even sports articles seemed to come easily. My feature articles were the ones that were accepted most often. News items were not as well accepted. Sports was definitely not my bailiwick. When the staff for the paper senior year was announced, I was the page three feature editor.

Page one was the editor, page two the associate editor and of course page four was sports. Two photographers were chosen as well. Other jobs like yearbook staff were also filled. Our sponsor told us she made the decisions based on our strengths.

Senior year I wrote pieces that appeared on each page including page four. When we selected a theme for the feature page for each week everyone in all the classes were asked to write columns for each issue. Our teacher selected articles from the ones I gave to her. I submitted only one of mine to insert for each edition. We did not submit copy with bylines to prevent preferential treatment.

Each issue featured a bylined piece of mine on at least one page. Photographs from my camera also appeared in the paper and the yearbook. I had editorials that were requested on certain topics for specific issues. These were published with no acknowledgement of authorship.

My skills included interviews which were a mainstay of page three. If no one in the classes volunteered for these stories, they were handed to the feature editor. I spent a lot of time interviewing the principal and most of the staff. Today my favorite joke is to tell people that I was in the principal’s office at least three times a week. I just don’t tell them why I was there.

In my files I have close to a hundred ideas or partial columns. I have been gathering these for over ten years. Each piece I publish may be written completely within the last few days. Others are finished after they have sat in the files for as much as three years or more.

I hope that this has helped you with ways to avoid the dreaded writer’s block syndrome. I always tell young authors that the only way to learn how to write is to write. It always works for me. Tell me if I publish something that you think should have stayed in the file a while longer and gotten more polish.

©Copyright 2025 by Charles Kensinger

Living in a dumpster

I have a granddaughter who can be very creative in her expressions. She isn’t the only one. All my children and grandchildren have developed expressive ways. Some are musical, artistic, or technically endowed. This young lady was having trouble with a school assignment and said that she would fail the class and end up living in a dumpster behind a convenience store.

Many of us have unfounded self-doubts.  I never had this problem while in school. My difficulty was in overestimating my abilities as far as schoolwork was concerned. Instructors and the way they grade subjectively confuse some students. Other teachers play games with testing, hoping to trick students.

I gave myself two assignments, which were in literature or other writing classes, to learn what they wanted. Math, science, and other more objective subjects were easier. The answers were correct or incorrect. Writing is not that way. Everyone has their opinion of what you say and how you say it.

My two self-imposed assignments for creative assignments like term papers or essays were to determine if the instructor wanted technically perfect work or more creative, idealistic projects. Sometimes I discovered that they wanted both. It took one or two grades to make this decision.

I appreciate your opinion; however, it will not change the way I express myself. Like my columns or not. That is your choice. My decision is to say what I want, not for your approval. Most of my motivation is from what Jehovah tells me. I don’t take polls to determine what to say.

I know some of you are also creative people. You may write, paint, or create other artistic works. Where we find our inspiration and ideas for what we produce is a question that those who want to do the same may have trouble with.

As I did for this column, my thoughts come from real life. I accept this as a way that God uses to inspire me. I do not believe that I am naturally creative. You may not agree with or like what I say. It does come from my head. I hope that you give credit for anything good I say to Him and not me.

There is a file on my computer with dozens of columns that I have started, and I add to from time to time. This piece began over a year ago. Many changes have been made during that time. I do not remember exactly where I wanted to go when I wrote the first words. Some day I may use this same phrase or some of the others she and the other grandkids use for another creation. Who knows if I can remember where those ideas came from?

I hope my future generations learn this from me. The conversation that sparked this column had several phrases that my wife read to me when our daughter explained the situation with her freshman. I hope that when she sees this piece and the fiction story that will come later, she will see how these simple ideas can become something more. Good ideas can be found all around us.

©Copyright 2025 by Charles Kensinger

14 years and counting

That is correct. March 24th is the anniversary of the first article I published on Examiner.com. In 2011 they began making my pieces available to you. Examiner.com was a respected way for authors to build an audience and polish their prose.

Wordsmiths have many reasons why they need or want to express themselves. Writing can be an obsession or a casual means of telling others what you are thinking. Some write even when they have no hope of being published. For a Christian from Springfield, MO this was a great opportunity.

As a child, the urge to record one’s thoughts started early. A newspaper with a friend was not successful. Who wants to read what nine-year-olds know about? Just because you win a small printing press selling seeds door to door, does not make you a publisher. When the Pipkin Jr. High School newspaper staff was chosen, it was another disappointment. Missing that English class because of Spanish class was unavoidable. Missing out in High School had to be prevented.

Journalism I class in my junior year was a favorite. The assignments were not work. Putting pen to paper has always been enjoyable. Being selected as feature editor senior year was disappointing. Page three is not as impressive as page one. Articles were published all over The Herald even though writing and editing features were my focus. The Highlighter even features sports photos from my personal camera.

Creative writing was the best Southwest Missouri State University offered as a major in the 70‘s. Focusing on getting accepted to Missouri University’s Journalism School was the main thing. Saving money was also important. When the acceptance letter came from them in 1974, being published was not the priority anymore.

Those of you who place God’s will above your desires know why years can change your focus. When I was laid off in 2009, I saw a job description and Examiner was the opportunity to return to being published as God is obeyed. I continued looking for full-time work. My unemployment lasted over three years.

When Examiner stopped publishing my articles and eventually stopped working with everyone, I began my own website. That has been my method of sharing what I write for the last nine years. My web page was self-titled for years. It is now called DouloiGroup.org as you know. Doulos is the Greek word for servant and Douloi is the plural.

I have plans to add more options to my offerings including fiction, complete daily Bible studies or even videos. I would be happy to promote your materials on my website. I just need to be able to view anything before I endorse it. I am not in this just for the money. I have a responsibility to my readers.

©Copyright 2025 by Charles Kensinger

One Dollar a Joke

Before I became rich and famous, I noticed that people were paying to see comedians and that I was giving my funny comments and stories away for free. I decided to experiment with making a little extra spending money by charging people when they laughed at something I had said. Upon completing an anecdote and hearing the listeners’ pleasure in their laughter, I simply stated, “That will be a dollar, please.” I have yet to make any money that way.

Some would laugh even harder at this “joke” which was not intended to even be funny. Humor is created by blending the obvious and the absurd. That must be what I did, accidentally. Some of what I believe to be my most hilarious witticisms did not elicit the cackles this faux pas received.

My youngest daughter has always joked about my stories being old and lame. A few years ago, her mother and I were moving her from one location to another while she was a university student. Several of her friends were also helping. I noticed that many of my stories were being shared with her friends, who laughed at them all.

Later I mentioned this to her and was told that I did not know how to tell a joke. They enjoyed the humor because it was the first time, they had heard my original material. I try to use that fresh comedic wit in my writing.

The problem with sharing my funny stuff with you is that I am not making any money from you either. My dollar per joke still seems reasonable. Save up my money until it adds up to a hundred dollars or more. Contact me and I will give you my address and you can send me a check. I need to include more humor so that I won’t die before I’ve racked up the hundred.

Did you expect the end of that one? Did you laugh or at least smile a little? Now you know why the first thing a comedian does is hire writers to create the material they use. I hope you found this entertaining. If so, send your dollar. Thank you for your support.

©Copyright 2023 by Charles Kensinger

The nation of image

I would like to take you to a place that I still frequent, but not as often as I did when I was much younger.  As a storyteller, this is my favorite place.  It is sometimes referred to as the image-i-nation. Get it? Got it? Good.

I borrowed this line from a classic Christmas movie. Yes, it is “Miracle on 24th Street”. When Kris is talking to his little friend about playing with other children, he describes this land to her.

Many of us have gone to this country for an escape. We can go there on our own, through a movie or book, or by listening to someone telling a story. If you know the difference between this world and reality you should be fine.

The new year is a time for us to take time off from the stress of our lives and jobs. You may also need to separate yourself from those that you do not enjoy being with. Social situations are often when we need to retreat to Imagination.

As a student, I used my mind to carry me to worlds that did not exist. I entered the stories written by Sir Arthur Conan Doyle, H.G. Wells, or Robert Heinlein. I traveled to Mars, other solar systems, Elizabethan England, and even the future.

I want you to join me. As I travel through my mind, I want you to come with me. I want you to be on the front lines in the battles that I have imagined and am in the process of writing and publishing. Life is an enjoyable journey. Let’s walk through it together.

I want you to follow this trip that I will be making to the lands that my consciousness is creating. Where will we go? I don’t know yet. Can you get there from here? Sure, you can, but what are you willing to allow to change in the world around us to go forward.

I will be posting fictional offerings more often than I have in the past. These stories will encompass many genres. Come along and see if you like what I am writing. I would appreciate your comments below.

©Copyright 2022 by Charles Kensinger

Call me Chuck

by Charles Kensinger

My friends call me Chuck. There are also some derivatives of it that the more creative find interesting. Jim refers to me as Up-chuck. Chuckles is my clown name. My mother said my name was Charles and that was what people should call me.

When I began to publish my writing, I decided to use Charles for all non-fiction and Chuck for fiction. My true name for truthful stories or columns. The name that I like for the stories are my own creations. Look at the name to recognize which you are reading. I hope that is simple.

Authors often use names that are not their legal titles. In business, I never signed purchase orders or sales quotations with Chuck. I do not sign checks with that name. Most people can’t tell because my signature is difficult to read.

Nom de plumes are common with creative folks. My great++ uncle Sam called himself Mark Twain. He used that moniker when writing for newspapers and then short stories and novels. He is also known for saying “Start with the truth and go from there.” I want you to be able to distinguish between real and fictional.

Do you use a pseudonym in your writing? I have not written romance novels. I am considering this genre and others but have not dipped my toe in, it yet. My attempt at 50,000 words for NaNoWriMo was not completely successful. I am proceeding with that project and will share it with you when I have gotten to a point where I am comfortable with it.

I want to encourage you to write your stories. If you need a place to publish, contact me and I might be willing to give you space on my page. You can remain anonymous. I know that we writers are often insecure about sharing our work. I will not take credit or payment for someone else’s creation.

Examiner.com gave me the opportunity to begin publishing my work. I can tag what you send me with your nickname or list you as a friend like I did for Tuesday. If what you sent me is not something I want to publish, I will tell you. Let’s write.

©Copyright 2022 by Charles Kensinger

NaNoWriMo Day 2

CHAPTER TWO

“There’s a package for you on the entry table,” came my wife’s voice as I opened the kitchen door from the garage.  “It’s marked ‘urgent,’” she added as she wiped her hands on her apron and kissed me hello.  

“When was it delivered?”  I asked as I headed to the front door.

“I don’t know.  It was lying outside the front door when I went to check the mail.”

Not unusual.  It was an express mail package & I zipped it open quickly.  Inside were the files I expected to have on my desk in the morning.  Interpol printouts, investigation reports from all over the world on probable killings by Mike Richards, etc.  Grainy surveillance photos, numerous other items, and a handwritten letter.  It was “the note writer.”

It started, “Be very careful.  Manny has not left the area.  You were supposed to find David Weber.  He will take action if he learns you believe he is involved. Quietly investigate the research Carl Freeman has been doing on his own time. Contact his wife at the funeral home through an intermediary.  Do not let anyone know that you are looking for Manny or you will be the next victim.  I’ll be in touch.”

After a quick dinner, I was back in the office.  I usually don’t get spooked, but this case was getting to me.  I looked at my mirrors closer than usual, checked to be sure my piece was ready, and made sure I walked in with other officers I knew.  I was very cautious.

I accessed Interpol.  The pages I had looked at were exactly what was currently posted.  “Note writer” must have access to Interpol.  He must be another officer or an excellent hacker.  I called the funeral home and found out what time Mrs. Freeman would be there tomorrow.  David Weber was more cooperative after I told him who the man was in the mug shot, he had identified.  When I told him I was going to charge him with possession of stolen goods, so I could hold him, he seemed relieved.

Sleep did not come easy.  Too many questions kept coming to mind.  What was Freeman working on?  Why did it cost him his life?  Who was the Note Writer? Could I keep David Webber alive, if Manny wanted him dead?

When the alarm went off at 6:00 a.m., I was still asking myself questions.  Today promised to be as strange as yesterday.

By 10:30 I had already checked for additional information on Mike Richards, aka Manny, and was at the funeral home.    Mrs. Freeman was surprised when I asked if her husband had any “special projects” he was working on.

“For years he has been working on a new car engine.  He applied for a patent a few months ago but found out recently that his design is already patented,” she told me.

“Has any of the stuff in his shop been taken?”

“Not that I can tell,” was her response.  “I rarely go out there.  The only thing I am sure is not missing is the car with the engine in it.”

I made arrangements to meet her that afternoon to look at the shop.  I still did not see why this was important.  I drove back to the station and was almost hit in the parking lot as I left my car.  Some people even drive like maniacs in the parking lot of a police station.

When I came back to my car to go meet Nicole Freeman, The Note Writer had struck again.  “Manny has made you,” it began.  “He knows you have Weber.  You should watch your step in the parking lot.  Next time he won’t miss you.  Do not contact the Freeman woman again directly.  If Manny thinks you are interested in the car, you and Weber are both dead.”

Could that car that almost hit me have been driven by a paid killer?  It made me think.  I went back to my office and called a friend to go see Mrs. Freeman.  I needed to know all I could about that car and engine.

Mike Richards was a very interesting man.  Suspected murders in over twenty countries.  Last ten years he had almost been caught at least five times.  No indication in my information of who had been close to catching him.  No one knew who he killed for, and all the murders seemed random.  No known link had been found, yet.  That was the Interpol report.

The other papers were clippings that described the deaths of an FBI agent, several police, and assorted citizens.  Many were in the U.S., but close to half were from other countries.  A few of the articles mentioned experimental work on engines or alternative fuels.  Some were murders, but most were accident reports or obituaries.  If The Note Writer was to be believed, Mike Richards must be very wealthy, indeed.  Between these clippings and Interpol’s report, he had killed over a hundred people.  The official score was twenty-two.

I found the reported suicides of three police officers, the accidental deaths of four more, and the killed in the line of duty of two and the agent to be the most disturbing.  Each of the officers and the agent was investigating an unsolved death at the time of their deaths.  One clipping had a photograph of a group of uniformed officers at the scene of the fatal shooting of another officer.  One of the faces was circled.  An arrow drawn from the circle pointed to the name “Manny” written on the side. With this clipping was an artist’s sketch entitled “Manny today.”

The articles on the death of the FBI agent described his family, and his partner and showed a map of the area where his body was found in his burned car.  Thomas Winston Riley was a twelve-year veteran of the FBI, former military intelligence, and trained hostage negotiator.  His partner, Sam Wilkens reported nothing unusual in their cases that would indicate anything other than an accident.  The investigation concluded with the statement, “Death due to severe trauma inflicted during an automobile accident.”

There was ice, the guard rails had been taken out by an eighteen-wheeler two days earlier.  He ran off the road and the car rolled down an embankment and burned due to a punctured gas tank.  Due to the snow and ice, there were no marks on the pavement.  All the tires melted in the fire.  There was no way to tell if the accident was the result of a blowout.

NaNoWriMo day one

I know that it is the tenth of November and that I was going to start writing on the first. I wanted to share with you what I have written. This is the first chapter.

The clock read 1:33. Four rings, maybe five . . . six . . . seven.

“Yeah.”

“Detective Sammon?”

“Yeah.”

“We have a homicide.”

“Where?”

“4212 S. Larson Boulevard.”

“I’m on my way.”

I’ve developed my technique to the point I can dress and be out of the house in five, or ten minutes tops.

“Another murder?” my wife asked.

“Yeah.  I’ll call you later this morning, O.K.?”

“K.”

At 1:40 in the morning, most of the lights are blinking, but when you’re a cop, you don’t stop.  The dashboard clock blinked at 1:59 as I pulled in behind the third patrol car.

“Who was first on the scene?”

Sam Wise, a twenty-year veteran on the force answered.  “I was.”

“What’s the story?”

“Neighbor on the south saw a car pull away about midnight.  She thought it unusual.  Her husband came home after 1:00 and told her the front door was open and a light was on the inside.  He came over and saw drawers out and I had her call it in.  I found the body in the kitchen.”

“Burglary gone bad?”

“Looks that way.”

“Anyone else lives here?”

“A wife.  She’s out of town.  Neighbors don‘t know where.  We found an address book.  The wife‘s sister, Elaine Newton is in the book.”

Less than an hour later, Mr. Newton had called his wife at the hotel where she and her sister were.  They started on their way back.  All Nicole Freeman knew was that she needed to go to the local hospital to see her husband.  There had been a break-in at the house.

It’s part of the job, but not an easy part, to meet the family at the hospital and tell them the bad news and escort them to the morgue to identify the body.  Mrs. Freeman was genuinely surprised to hear and see that her husband was dead.  Or maybe she’s that good of an actress.

Nothing was unusual about this case.  Mrs. Freeman left two days earlier for a weeklong shopping trip with her sister and some friends.  Carl Freeman, the deceased, had worked until his usual 5:00 p.m. at a local factory.  He had prepared a frozen meal his wife left for him.  Worked in his shop till 9:30 or 10:00 p.m. Watched the news, and went to bed around 10:30.  The neighbor saw the lights go off while she read and waited for her husband to get home.  The late model car she saw left, could not be identified by anyone and no one saw the driver.

Mrs. Freeman did an inventory of the house.  All her jewelry was gone.  Most are not worth much.  The most interesting missing items were three guns.  One, a .38 pistol.  A single .38 slug was taken from Carl Freeman’s head.  Shot between the eyes.  Not the way most burglars would do it.  This case was going to be hard to solve.  Or was it?

When I went to my car at about 2:30 that afternoon, I found a note under the driver’s windshield wiper.  Addressed to “Detective Sammon” it read “FEX237 dirty brown 1998 Honda Civic.”

No one had seen anyone around my car when I inquired later.  I went back to the station.  David Wever was the owner of the 1998 Honda Civic with the FEX237 tags.  243 W. Main Street was the listed address.  The car was parked in front of the dilapidated house.  It smelled of everything you could imagine and so did Weber.

“Mr. Weber?”

“Who wants to know?”

“Detective Alan Sammon.”  I showed him my badge.

“Yeah, I’m Weber,” He didn’t seem concerned.

“Where were you last night?”

“Right Here?”

“All night?”

“Yeah.”

“Anyone with you?”

“Nope.”

“That your car?”

“Yeah.”

“Was it there all night with you?”

“Yeah.”

“You did not make a trip to Larson Boulevard about midnight?”   Did he just take a deep breath?

“Nope.  Stayed here all night.”

I wanted a search warrant but knew I had no chance.  No one could even I.D. the car, except the note writer.  I went back to my car.

Had Weber seen the note writer?  Maybe?  He had struck again.  The note said, “Patsy’s Bar from 10:30 to 11:30.”  I was headed up to the house again when I heard the back door slam.  I caught Mr. Weber before he could get all the way over a privacy fence in his backyard.

I cuffed him and called for backup.  White we waited, I read him his rights.  Then I asked if he would let us search the house.

“Hell, no!”

While I was going back to the station in my car, I requested a search warrant be issued on probable cause.  He had bolted after initial questioning.  That didn’t make him guilty of murder, but the judge thought he must be running from something.

David Weber sat in a holding cell with two other guys while I went to Patsy’s Bar and the uniforms searched the house.   Derek, the bouncer, and Bob, the bartender, knew Weber.  He was there last night and left with another man around 11:30. They could not give a good description of the other man.  I thought it might have been Carl Freeman.

Weber’s house had many items that did not appear to belong to Mr. Weber.  Why would a man who lives alone need twelve televisions, six-CD changers, and five DVD players?  Nothing found there matched any of the items missing from Freeman’s house.  No guns were in the house or the car.

I could only hold Weber for 24 hours without proof he committed a crime, but he helped me on that one.

“I know you left Patsy’s with Carl Freeman around 11:30 last night.”

“Is that the guy’s name?” was his response.  “All I know is he asked if I wanted to make a quick heist and I said sure.  He gave me the address in the parking lot and told me to take whatever I wanted.  I didn’t know he had killed a guy and wanted me to take the fall.”

I was surprised.  “So, the man at the bar wasn’t the guy we found dead at the house?”

“No.  That’s probably his wife’s boyfriend.  He told me to take whatever I wanted out of the house because the judge had just given it all to his wife in a divorce.  He had left the doors unlocked and no one was home.  It sounded too good to be true.”

“Had you seen the man at the bar before?”

“Not before last night.  He was there earlier and asked me to hang around.  Told me what he wanted me to do, but said he needed to be sure his wife and the boyfriend were gone.”

“When was that?”

“About 10:30”

“What was he driving?”

”Didn’t see.”

“Did you go back to the bar after you left the house?”  I knew the answer to this one.

“No.  I just went home.  It shook me up bad.”

I had him look at mug shots of locals and even some known contractors.  After the first hour, I thought it was hopeless, but then he spotted one.  A worldwide contractor known as Mike Richards, Richard Michaels, R. Mann, Manny, and the list went on.  No confirmed, true, identity.

I requested an Interpol search, filed the paperwork to hold David Weber as a material witness, and went home.

©Copyright 2022 by Charles Kensinger

Nanowrimo

It is coming up again. I have not participated in a National Novel Writing Month before. If you are a wordsmith, you may have tried this before. It has happened every year since 1999. I first heard of this through the “Writer’s Digest.” I have subscribed to this magazine off and on for years.

The premise is to write a minimum of 5,000 words of a novel or memoir in thirty days. The month that has been accepted nationwide for most of this time has been November. If you’re a writer or want to be, join me.

The question to answer first is what story you and I have in mind will become our subject this year. This is the perfect time to bring out the unfinished objects that you had every intention of getting to eventually. They may be no more than an idea written on a napkin or scrap of paper.

I believe I will pick up a manuscript that is the first of a trilogy that sweeps through three genres. This first story is a crime drama that takes place in a medium size city. The next one will be science fiction about a businessman that develops new technology in the energy industry. The final installment will be a political thriller. I have a few ideas for each book.

I have working titles for each of the three. I don’t want to share these because a title cannot be copyrighted. I wrote a short story years ago and was surprised when a famous author used that same title. The book was not one of his best. The plot line was nothing like my story. Someday I hope to rewrite it and I can use the same name.

If you want to begin on the first of November as I plan to do, there is the preparation that can be done. Note any possible plot points, make an outline, record possible character names, and even write their backstories. I’ve done much of this already and will rethink any changes I want to make.

My plan is to publish these pages on a regular basis here. When I complete the first draft of this novel, I will be able to move to the second and then the third of this trilogy. I want to thank you for following me and giving me the incentive to continue writing.

That is one of the keys to being an effective author. Sticking to your writing can be challenging. It is easy to become frustrated that any one idea does not want you to complete its story. As we encourage each other to keep plugging away maybe we can all finish one of our UFOs. We’ll meet here again on the first of November and compare notes.

©Copyright 2022 by Charles Kensinger

The first funeral

I’m watching the episode of The Waltons where the Baptist preacher confesses to John Walton that he has never officiated at a funeral before. G.W. has died at Fort Lee in a training accident. He is brought home to be laid to rest by his parents.

This makes me think of the first funeral at which I was asked to officiate. Licensed and ordained ministers have had this duty thrust upon them since the first person died. If you have never had to perform this function for someone you knew, it would be hard for me to tell you how it feels.

I studied to be a minister at Southwest Baptist College in Bolivar, Missouri. None of the classes I had were designed to prepare us for weddings or funerals. Those were covered in the counseling courses I did not feel led to take.

My first wedding was a few months after I graduated from college. The couple was friends of mine that I worked with. My Pastor and friend advised me on what to say and how to conduct the service. Years later when my cousin asked me to help with his mother’s funeral, I felt more experienced to handle that on my own.

Because this was a funeral that would mostly be attended by family members, I decided to focus on family relationships. I read a portion of a poem written by another aunt. I told stories from my cousins and their children. Humor was not inserted into the stories. Many of them did have funny endings.

My one worry was that others would be offended by how I was honoring a family member’s life. Stories that I told might seem humorous or inspirational to me. Would others view them as they were meant to be interpreted?

I wrote about my dad for his funeral and could not read it myself. When Mom died, I was the only speaker. She had not asked me to do that. When my sister, brothers, and myself were planning her funeral I told the others that I would do the eulogy. My oldest daughter wrote her obituary. I asked a cousin to be ready to read what I had written if I was unable to finish it. He was relieved when I finished.

 I’ve participated in a few funerals where I only read the stories of the family members. Our lives can be broken down into stories. When I wrote my memoir, “Doulos”, it was to tell my family who I was and how the Lord had led me to be the person I am. Don’t wait for your life to be told after you die. Now is the time to tell it yourself. Stay tuned for my book, “Your story, Your way.” In it, I discuss the different methods that can be used to record and present what your family needs to remember about you.

©Copyright 2022 by Charles Kensinger